Friday, September 16, 2011
Balancing Act
I am trying not to think too hard about about how to get it all done. When your house and life get to the point that it causes you to stare at it all like a bump on a log......where do you begin? You do the next thing. I am glad we can't 'hear' what is going on in other people's brains. The few men folk, friends of the family, who have stopped by lately must be really wondering what is up around here. Nine kiddos, a tired mommy, a traveling daddy, lots of fluff and entertainment in between from the exterior world! Ahhhh!!!!! Griping and not know where to begin. I love it when a mom of one in school starts spilling on me how complicated their lives are. Sigh. I say nothing and smile and nod my head. NO ONE can understand all this bunches of kids stuff unless they live it. Smile and nod, smile and nod. Emotional support of many is....exhausting. Laundry of many is exhausting. Now food for many is not so exhausting as it is just more of the same ingredients. I would be a church basement woman and cook for crowds but.....no thanks. I am not cut out for that job.
Conversation from yesterday which spells it all out. "I walk by the plastic tupperware cabinet every day and think about how I really need to weed it out. What is it about a cabinet of mismatched Tupperware which leaves a mom laid out in exhaustion?" Yep. So goes the rest of the house. Tupperware gives one perspective on life I guess.
Well, this is just another running at the mouth post. Next stop, eight hours of driving to retrieve my eldest. I am looking forward to my time with her and helping her in any way I can. All you moms out there with bunches, soak it up while you can. Sunday is coming!
Labels:
Coping,
housekeeping,
life,
The mom
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I'm having a hard time figuring out what The Next Thing is. I tend to be paralyzed by all the things I'm not doing. Yesterday went better because I finally began work on the strawberry patch would I should've 8-10 weeks ago. But hey, something has been started!
ReplyDeleteWhile procrastinating on the garden yesterday, I cleaned out the Tupperware cabinet. LOL.
Face palm.
ReplyDeleteDon't assume I know what to do next. It is very random and very overwhelming. Fun times! Tupperware still a mess here!