I think I am going to lock two of my children in a room so they can settle their parenting issues once and for all. The worry and concern they have for each other blows my mind or I might want to blow my mind if they keep worrying and being concerned. Stop it already! Go to your happy place dears!!!!!! There is a time and a place to contemplate your navels and now is one of those times. Perhaps I should have prayed for spacey children????? Breathe and go to your happy place Karin.