I figured it out!!!!!! Since said child can not stop asking what his sister is doing, I figured out a solution. I am now going to ask the parenting child frequently what the other child is doing!!! I'll make up a names...... "Steve, is Carrie ready for church?" "Steve, has Carrie brushed her teeth yet today?" "Steve, does Carrie have her glasses on and is she out of bed?" "Steve, has Carrie done her chores today???"
I just tried this out. It is beautiful. Steve is very confused but he is less worried about Carrie already.
Karin is the new Mrs. Piggle Wiggle!!!!!!